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Now, exactly as this principle applies to the empire, to the nation
within the empire, to the city within the nation, to the street
within the city, so it applies to the home within the street.
The institution of the family is to be commended for precisely
the same reasons that the institution of the nation, or the
institution of the city, are in this matter to be commended.
It is a good thing for a man to live in a family for the same reason
that it is a good thing for a man to be besieged in a city.
It is a good thing for a man to live in a family in the same sense that it
is a beautiful and delightful thing for a man to be snowed up in a street.
They all force him to realize that life is not a thing from outside,
but a thing from inside. Above all, they all insist upon the fact
that life, if it be a truly stimulating and fascinating life,
is a thing which, of its nature, exists in spite of ourselves.
The modern writers who have suggested, in a more or less open manner,
that the family is a bad institution, have generally confined
themselves to suggesting, with much sharpness, bitterness, or pathos,
that perhaps the family is not always very congenial.
Of course the family is a good institution because it is uncongenial.
It is wholesome precisely because it contains so many
divergencies and varieties. It is, as the sentimentalists say,
like a little kingdom, and, like most other little kingdoms,
is generally in a state of something resembling anarchy.
It is exactly because our brother George is not interested in our
religious difficulties, but is interested in the Trocadero Restaurant,
that the family has some of the bracing qualities of the commonwealth.
It is precisely because our uncle Henry does not approve of the theatrical
ambitions of our sister Sarah that the family is like humanity.
The men and women who, for good reasons and bad, revolt against the family,
are, for good reasons and bad, simply revolting against mankind.
Aunt Elizabeth is unreasonable, like mankind. Papa is excitable,
like mankind Our youngest brother is mischievous, like mankind.
Grandpapa is stupid, like the world; he is old, like the world.
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